Saturday, June 20, 2009

Good 2 accept changes and move on....

There is always a point in our life when we feel that it is like a smooth river flowing all by itself. But have we ever wondered that it was not like this from the very beginning it must have carved its way like a river. It must have been born somewhere, been nurtured by someone, going though lot many ups and downs all alone by itself, creating the path of its journey all by itself. But creating that path was not that easy as it looks. It goes through different phases, and journey through each phase adds a new aspect to its outward appearance and it keeps on moving to reach were it is destined to.

And when I think about our lives it’s quite similar. We come in this world as a baby girl or baby boy, nurtured by our parents. When we go through joyous and bad times we definitely have few shoulders to rely on, which can be compared to many tributaries of the river. As a tributary increases the crescendo of the river in a same way our near and dear ones strengthen our will when we are crestfallen, by their advices and by showing their concern and care to us. The middle part of river can be compared to our lives in professional college and after that as a professional. Similar to the river becoming deeper and wider in this stage we also start to acquire depth of ideas and skills, there is constant increase in our knowledge and a certain level of maturity is also reached. And finally the last stage of river can be compared to last stage of our life the strength of river decreases and it attains the calmness that is associated with an old person. It leaves many distributaries and that can be taken as loss of relations at the end of life when we lose our dear ones.

Our lives are not that simple as it looks like. It’s all about a new change every second. And how quickly and easily u adapt to that change is important just like a river does. Without any questioning and giving a second thought why such a change? It adapts itself and moves on. River teaches us that obstacles in our life are their only to modify us in a better way. And each of these obstacles teaches us something for sure, a new aspect of life comes up, our minds are broadened.

That’s what we need to learn from it. That change plays a very important role in our making. Our life looks so smooth yet it is like a river comprising of different stages. And each stage has its own role to play with its own significance. Each stage teaches us something new, the lesson it holds in it to be read aloud to us. So that we can move forward in our lives and accept everything that comes up.

We need to accept changes because at one or the other point we wished for it. The situation that we are in was once desired by us and when we are there living it all of a sudden we don’t want to be there. But why? When you are living your dream it is simply you and your dream. Then you need not think about your past or your future. And never think that your dream has pushed you away from someone or you have missed on the other thing. Live the moment you once desired for your way so that you never regret later that you missed on something.

And when you live your life whole heartedly you will never have a moment to regret about. God bless.

4 comments:

Skywalker said...

let me be the first one to comment over here...ya very nice comparision of river with life and particularily the penultimate paragraph...thats 100% true sis, when you attain something for which you have always dreamed of you sometimes feel that you have lost somethings...buts thats part and parcel of the life....nice one kiddo...keep writing and keep smiling... :)

swati said...

widout much ado,i wud say dat d metaphorical style used in d text is adorable.....u've personified d river in such a way dat it seems, its dancing 2 d tunes of lyf......gud job sweety!!!! hats off 2 u....
one more thing,i've read many articles b4,but weneva i read urs,i alwazz feel everything has cm 4m widin.. n its nt mere d scribbling of words....u write wid ur full soul in2 it....n dats d identification of a gud writer...keep it up... :)

Rahil Choudhary said...

Complex things beautifully expressed..! Got to move on..

Jaunty anima said...

nice....beautifully written...!!!
ab pata chala ghar baithke kya kar rahi hai...life ko analyse kar rahi hai...wahhh!!!